what makes a person cheat on their lover/spouse

[LadyDeath]

Yes but CHEATING IS WRONG AND IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE ELSE SATISFYING YUH DAMN ARSE JUS FILE FOR A DIVORCE AND IF IT DONE TOO LATE AND YUH HAVE CHILDREN WITH YUH HUSBAND/WIFE THAT NOT TREATING YOU WELL... THEN IF YOU DIDN'T CARE TO HORN HIM OR HER THEN DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN'S FEELINGS SO JUS LEAVE

SAID BY ARIYAH BECAUSE IN ALL RELIGION CHEATING IS A DARM SIN!
AND IF YUH CYAH BREAK UP WITH YUH HUSBAND/WIFE BECAUSE YOU CARE ABOUT HIS/HER FEELINGS THEN THINK BACK TO HOW YOU DIDN'T CARE WHEN YUH HORN HIM/HER. TRUTH HURTS BUT IS BETTER IN THE LONG RUN SO DEAL WITH IT ...

NO ONE CANNOT SAY I WRONG BCUZ YOU BETTER WELL KNOW CHEATING IS WRONG DON MATTER WHAT AND IT IS A VERY NASTY THING.

 

[RauCous]

Wrong for who exactly? Cheating is a symptom of a retarded relationship. If it's the fault of the cheater then it is entirely forseeable. People dont turn halfway in relationships it's a gradual process. Either shortcomings are glossed over or needs aren't met. I'm not justifying cheating but i'm not justifying torturous and sucky relationship either. Alot of people set themselves up by not considering their mates. They have no right to get offended when they've contributed to the problem. Sure it hurts but they're not 1the only victim.. the cheater could very easily be hurting also. Many people are driven away in relationships to find fulfillment elsewhere. Those cheated on aren't suprised only at the act.. they're suprised at how distant and detached the relationship really was. Cheating is only an indicator of the state of the relationship. Some cheaters are professionals and many are idiots to assume they can change people who dont want to change. The rest of cheaters do it to escape the ignorance and neglect of their partners.

 

[LadyDeath]

Well thats what i am saying. Yeah you cheat for certain reasons and yes you are a victim of not being treated well and sort and you get your enjoyment from someone else but that does not mean you would go behind your love back don't matter if they Are UNAWARE how allure relationship going or NOT , to horn him just say it in his face and done. What is the point you still there for? If the relationship is distant or however, DON'T ESCAPE just make a break for it and done. what is the sense you there and you getting nothing?

 

[EmpireKing]

one thing.....STUPIDITY

 

[Resha]

U said it K....U cheating on the outside and found love or whatever what was lacking in ur relationship, then leave the poor spouse .... Don't linger around like a puppy... Then it would not look bad on the other person part as cheating..

 

[LadyDeath]

Yup it says it all. People saying it like cheating is a excuse for poorly loved and not getting attention when its jus a darn excuse for horning and finding ah next spouse.

 

[madsuya]

have anyone of u non cheaters lust for another lately or u still faithfull, come on ah sure someone caught ur eyes!!! lol :evil:

 

[LadyDeath]

Nope i am always faithful to ryan and to tell you the truth i am caught up being so faithful i do not take interest in no one around me anymore is like he is all i see ...thats true love not crazy teen love ...its mature love and to me once you stay this way couples will see their way through.
I cannot look at a guy and say "aye he real sweet eh" and see myself with him thats just wrong and boring because all that goes through my mind is ryan and it will forever be. And its not hard and neither a fairytale because once you truly love someone and give it all you got it can work out and it will once BOTH partners try ! Amen lol

 

[madsuya]

lik yuh preachin dey gul, happy to hear dat

 

[RauCous]

have anyone of u non cheaters lust for another lately or u still faithfull, come on ah sure someone caught ur eyes!!! lol :evil:

It's hard enough for me to have more than one crush!!!! I could never get away with cheating!!!! :nono:

 

[LadyDeath]

lolz... tell me something lets just say u have a husband and u found out he was cheating on you with all kind of women and they calling your phone to speak to him ..what would you do because you have a 1 yr old son with him and he doesn't listen, he does only want to drink rum and party and do not come home in the night , all the time he watches girls when he is with you and troubles them and somtimes when he is angry he takes it out on out by lashing you ..would you leave him?

 

[madsuya]

find ah gd daycare for d kid , get ah work after, tell dat lazy arse leach get d steppin out d house an start on ur own!!!