Is S-e-x needed in relationships?

[LadyDeath]

Please i jus trying to find some views here

is s-e-x needed in relationships i nuh talking about marriages of course but i mean in typical teens...some people say it brings them closer and crap but what do you think....

 

[RauCous]

I think for most people it just satisfies their urges and for the majority of teens these days just get hooked or over do it. Thats just unfortunate..
Sex is a good this but only in certain contexts. It is not at all a cure all for your relationship's ills.

 

[candy8998]

i dont think its needed but sometimes the feeling is just so strong you know lol but i do think its better to abstain unlike this chic i know who has been doing it since she was 8!!! and this guy in my class was like she's a whore blah blah blah and he would never do it with her, so what i want to know is why when guys talk about girls and sex there always like "i wanna do her n she hott" then they see another chic who's hot and know for a fact she "gets around" they back out. I know its so obvious wit infections and what not but why do you have all this mouth if you ain't about nothing!

 

[Vickie]

i know some men these days just like that..they always look for the prettiest girl and wanna have sex with her because she is hott but little do they know that if they keep thinking like that they would end up with hott STDs lol

 

[candy8998]

i know, they're not even looking to commit they just want to have sex with a potential "whore" i mean if you settle with a girl then in the long run you can have all the sex you want!!

 

[LadyDeath]

Yeah jed now i hearing the talk is after 9 is lunch wtf is that

 

[-Wolverine]

it's a good workout

 

[admin]

Ammm mister wolverine what do you know about sex? and you saying its a good work out and thing hmmm

 

[candy8998]

lol sex in a relationship is a good workout?? hmmmm

 

[Resha]

A good workout in marriage i think..... but before marriage...hmmm... s-e-x will be needed when the time is needed but be safe....

 

[RauCous]

I think it sad when a relationship exists only because of the sex. I must be losing it cuz almost every relationship i see with young people sex is 75% of what they stay together for. Maybe i'm lookin at the wrong people.

 

[LadyDeath]

I knew a couple who was krazy over eachother and was together for 1yr and more and when they became intimate they only wanted sex and didn't love eachother anymore..unfortunately they broke up but relationships does not last long when people only get sex from eachother.

 

[Resha]

S.e.x is not necessary for a relationship... I guess it all depends where u are in your relationship..... Young teens do it because everyone do it..... Marrried people do it because its an affection ...... couples do it for pleasure....

 

[LadyDeath]

Lemme tell you all especially Girls something.... a little advice...

Don't Matter How Close you all are like "like husband and wife" it doesn't mean that sex is needed ent you all was doing great without it..what makes u think you need it now??

Some say its a feeling of closeness and you want to do it to show your lover that you trust them and blah blah well lemme tell you something there are other ways of that eh like going on a date, protecting them everywhere you go, caring for them...etc

When a fella tell you to have sex with them and he wants you and you alone and the only way to show it is tru sex then thats when he just using you for sex because if he really understands you and loves you then he will wait

Consider This Before You Have Sex :

Do i really know them
Do i love them
do i trust them
Can they protect me..did they ever show it ?
If i get pregnant..can they act like a man and go through it with me....
Do i know his/her backround?
Do i know his/her friends and family
Has he ever shown his/her love to me...how?
Is he being completely honest with me with his past?
Does him/her act mature enough to handle any consequences that might arise?
Does he talk about marrying me??

ETC.................

 

[madsuya]

When i'm in a relationship i will have sex because you need know every thing about him or her including will he satisfy you

 

[TFM]

Hmmm...is it needed? No, you could have a perfectly good relationship without s-e-x. But does it make a relationship a lot more fun, personally, hell yeahs. Lol.

 

[admin]

When someone has sex for the first day it makes the relationship seem like its based on sex, and their will not be any excitement or trill in the relationship

 

[TFM]

Hmm, if you give it up on the first day, then that's something totally different. That's not a relationship..its a booty call. I know a girl who was in a "relationship" for four years with a guy and she only saw him once a month cus he lived far away and worked two jobs. And when they did meet, they just had sex. They never went out, not once. Hmm, yeah that's not a relationship.

 

[LadyDeath]

Thats a fling... I think relationships suppose to be about love and commitment and when you get the point and you seeing that in your relationship then maybe its the
right time

 

[madsuya]

with all that its yes, it's needed