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[RealSweet]

Well i have been in a lot of relationships in the past and in all of these relationships, i got my heart broken. And then the person who broke up with me would say " you is the best gf i ever had". Then i would ask myself if i am how come you broke up with me.....anyway my question for you all is : HOW WOULD YOU KNOW IF YOU HAVE FOUND THE RIGHT PERSON??? :? :? :? :?

 

[mrkinky]

lord knows.......rigth now mrkinky crushin on a girl and he doh even know wuh to do....yuhknow if was for a lil bootiaction i wuda have all d right words and sweet comments.......ting so bad cause ah she AH WATCHIN INDIAN MOVIE

i guess u hadda sort them out from the start girl
doh jus go wid dem cause aye he have nice eyes....ask him questions....like where he see himself in 5-10 yrs
ask him questions that are along the goals and aspirations of life of what yur lookin for....
this girl am likin has a great personality...she does take alot of my childish shit...she have a damn great smile that i like...and yet she is also goal oriented...she wanna do law as a second degree....likewise i have my sights set on another degree as well...
shes family oriented so am i....shes not much into the clubs and alco..myself as well...

so thas teh first step in findin the right person.....anything else is where bout parties will have to work together to make things work....

 

[RauCous]

Finally someone answered i was gettin worried i wanted to know too.
Part of it like said before is that you can see a future with that person you can think of being with them regardless of situations and circustances. Even if things change the way you are to each other wont. You sense the very essense of thier being when your together like some unspoken bond connects you both.
Thats my one and a half cents.

 

[mrkinky]

i also tend to strongly look for future attributes within a person as well....
yea u want somebody to go lime with etc buh sooner or later u as a person esp a woman gonna want that feelin of commitment and yur outlook on life is gonna be matured...

nuh like some fellas i see ...all they good for is drinkin rum and fighting and the only future they know by way of gf is the closest guesthouse...and ey so fuc*in cheap they eh even thinkin guest house

 

[EmpireKing]

:S Thank God i young...i doh wanna have to worry about this love thing now yes.

RealSweet....goodluck girl, jus remember doh rush into anything and have regrets after.....if it takes you 10years to make sure that he is rite do it.....if he loves you enough his tail will wait.

 

[admin]

Finding the right person is really had to find, but you does know when you really feel that bond and when you both does finish each others sentences, sacrifice any thing just to be their with them, devote your life for them just to all ways have a smile on her face.

 

[RauCous]

Re: how would you know

Left to my own devices i'd feel that way about just about girl... Thank God I know better. I'm just afraid that common sense is escaping me. My friend told me not to get involved unless I'm completely sure- it scares me straight everytime cuz i'm never sure of anything.

 

[Resha]

Nobody is sure of anything in life....... Its risk,challenges , bravery, confidence, etc that puts us forward in life.... Rau cous, u'll never be too sure of anything in life right now... even the girl in your life...so take the chance at your own risk to see what happens... always go with a confident mind...

Knowing the right person for you would always be a question in someones mind until you find that right person......

 

[RauCous]

I'm allergic to risk... I'm not a big fan of trial and error either. Yeah I know you never get anything accomplished unless you try. If only it were than easy for everyone. I guess I'm too paranoid but it serves me well.

 

[LadyDeath]

I'm taking alot of risks right now but HEY WAKE UP LIFE IS SUPPOSE TO BE ABOUT THESE THINGS U NEVER EXPECT TO KNOW WHAT LIFE IS ABOUT IF U DONT GET UP OUT OF UR CHAIR AND DO SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!!! :icon_biggrin:

 

[madsuya]

you'll never konw, but you will have to tell yourself everyday "ah found d rite one yes" an smile an ah guess be happy or make d most of wat yuh have!!! mg:

 

[Resha]

Sometimes people find the right person and they don't even know it..... They too caught up with others things to see what is really in front of them....
Finding the right person is not hard like admin said.....
Trials and error happens in life, don't be afraid of it .. my advice to RauCous...