Raped pregnant Teens

[admin]

These days alot of ours sisters(females) are being raped and are forced to into un wanted pregnancy, Is this just for a 15 year old or a 16 years old or any age related to this matter to be carrying the baby of a man who raped her?

 

[Resha]

Well in instances like these the person at whatever age has the right to have an abortion.... I wonder if anyone kept their baby which resulted out of rape? Jus thinking about that will hunt u forever!

 

[admin]

See rape is such a touchy subject and i really thing the victims should only be the ones to be given the division to aboard the child. This was a forced act and as resha said it will have a bad effect on her life. Say the child grows up and he/she ask who is daddy what will she say

 

[RauCous]

The same thing they always do.. he was a bad man. The damage is done once you get raped.. pregnance just makes it extra hard to move on. But i dont think victims should obsess over what happen.. If they survived the rape they can more than survive anything else..

 

[admin]

All at this way racous if you are a 16 year old and a virgin and just so some one kidnap you and a few men started to gang bang you, damaged your private areas. Would you not feel bad for the rest of you life. Remember you don't know what sex is only after you was raped and you will keep having to watch over you back to prevent it from happening again. I does always say this once it happens to you then you will know whats its like. We will never know how a rape victim feels unless we experience it so to all those how are haters to victims who were raped wanting to have an abortion all i want to say you don't know whats its like so shut your trap. I does hear alot of religions leaders with this talk to f with them

 

[candy8998]

wow this is a touchy subject matter. Speaking from my experience, it not only damages you physically but mentally. Talking about it and picturing what could possibly happen are way different than experiencing it because the first thing that comes into your mind is that this the end. So much fear is instilled in your mind that if you do happen to over come this you end up living with this edgy overly protective side of you, thinking that anyone who looks at you for more than a few seconds is out to get you, now imagine carrying the child of a man that has robbed you of your innocence. Abortion would sound nice right about that time because seeing this innocent child everyday as a product of your pain, i don't think any woman would be able to live a normal life after that experience.

 

[LadyDeath]

when i saw this topic i thought it was pregnant teens who were raped...we have touched on this subject a long time ago...Yes it is bad to kill a life and what not but in cases like this teens should take abortion if they are raped bcuz how would it feel if they keep the child

-to see a baby everyday that looks nothing like you
- baby don't have a father and do not know who is the father
- to look at he/she everyday and all you could of remember the man face when he was raping you
- to be able to cope when your son/daughter asks if they have a dad or mom

it would break you down in all ways mentally, physically etc... even going thru pregnancy would be a tough task because you would have to support from family relatives etc cuz some would backdown and also you do not have the father to be around...what if you get hiv from the man who raped you gawd jus thinking about it makes me sick i would never want this for anyone at all not even my enemies

 

[RauCous]

The baby is still genetically half of her.. how could you disown it wholly so. Its her problem if she wants to ruminate on her victimness.
If you know you dont wanna get pregnant from rape the morning after pill is available.. preventing conception is not the same as abortion.. In most first world countries its over the counter. I dont think most women in Trinidad would know that. Not the victims anyway.

 

[candy8998]

Ok i agree, but it's not like she planned to get raped or become pregnant, this woman could have dreams that she would want to fulfill before having a family and now she has to put that aside to take care of a child, we all know how much is needed in raising a baby. But you said it's her problem if she wants to hold on to what happen to her, it's not always a choice to how you want to feel about it. Look at postpartum depression sometimes you just can't help that, it occurs with hormonal imbalances, can be heretic, or it can come from a mental factor before pregnancy or during, it's a stage in which you can't stand seeing that baby because you would feel as if that baby changed your life and stopped you from living how you wanted to. I have a friend who's the baby of a rape situation, obviously he didn't grow up with a father, he's 19 now, and he told me about how his mother got raped at a young age and got pregnant with him, and from as long as he could remember she always used to beat him and talk about how he ruined her life and she had to stop doing what she used to do to stay home and take care of him. He's bipolar, and i believe that was induced upon him. So yes it's real sad because i do think the mother would use the baby as a source to relieve pent up stress. And it's just wrong to put an innocent child through that because they just don't deserve it, however I'm not saying that all babies would turn out this way. About the morning after pill, it is abortion in a more chemical way, because abortion occurs after fertilization, and your stopping this egg from being fertilized if it that's how it was supposed to be, either way you're still taking a life.

 

[RauCous]

Oh i wasn sure how the pill worked.

 

[admin]

When i mean they should be given the option to abort the child i did not mean like 2-3 months after i mean within a month time anything else would make it worst, because you are developing a child in your body.

 

[Sian]

What about incest as well? What should be done in such a case?

 

[LadyDeath]

i think that abortion should be considered in these cases for mental and physical reasons. Mental because the mother would be scarred for life and seein this child would remind her of what happened. Physically the baby can be born with defects and also the possibility of being alienated and abused in the long run