Rape In Trinidad and Tobago

[LadyDeath]

A 36-year-old Point Fortin technician is expected to appear in court for allegedly sexual assaulting a nine-year-old girl.

The man was arrested last Saturday near his home hours after the alleged incident.

According to police, the man, who is a relative of the girl?s mother, was visiting the mother?s home when he took the girl into a bedroom and assaulted her.

The girl later told her mother of the incident, and that it had also occurred last year.

A report was made to the Point Fortin Police Station and WPC Bethel began investigations.

The suspect was arrested while he was liming on a street near his home.

He was taken to the Point Fortin Police Station where he was later charged with two counts of serious indecency and two counts of indecent assault.

WTF! This man should have his private areas cut off instant! Lord forbid if i was thatr mother i hiring a hitman one time !

 

[Shadowhunter]

That's not enough IMO. How much do you wanna bet he gets off on good behavior or some stupidness like that?

 

[LadyDeath]

Police are currently in search of three men who raped a 30-year-old Laventille woman on Sunday night. The woman alleges that she was at a friend?s house on Sunday night when she became intoxicated.

Three men she knew allegedly offered to drop the her home.She left with them, but she awoke at about 3 a.m. on Monday to discover that she had been left in a hotel room in St Helena.

Her money and valuables were said to be missing and she was feeling unwell.
The woman made a report to the police & was taken to a medical institution where she was examined and it was determined that she had been raped and sodomized.

 

[LadyDeath]

Omg. When i read this i don't know what to think..There are sick mofos out there ..Men feel like they can do women almost anything and get away with it . I am glad we was prosecuted. Maybe now in jail men can re-enact the scence with his butt !

A university student charged with sexually assaulting a fellow student allegedly claimed he was re-enacting scenes from the

Fifty Shades of Grey film.


Mohammad Hossain used belts to restrain his alleged victim during the attack on Saturday, the Chicago Tribune reports.

The bionuclear engineering student took the woman back to his dormitory room and told her to strip for him. He then bound her legs and hands to a bed before attacking her, according to the paper.
He hit her several times, the Assistant State's Attorney Sarah Karr was reported as saying. The woman reportedly responded by telling him to stop and ?began shaking her head and crying?, to which he hit her repeatedly with a belt and his fists. Hossain then allegedly sexually assaulted her.

When his roommate arrived and attempted to open the door, Hossain held it shut. His alleged victim was eventually allowed to leave and contacted police.
He reportedly told police he and the woman were re-enacting a scenes from the Fifty Shades film.
Hossain's lawyer Sandra Bennewitz told a Cook County criminal court judge that her client was ?involved with several UIC leadership programs, was a student ambassador to the alumni association and was on the triathlon team?.
?Sandra, how can someone involved in all that let a movie persuade him to do something like this?? asked Judge Adam Bourgeois Jr.
?He would say that it was consensual,? she replied, according to the Tribune.
Hossain was charged with one count of aggravated criminal sexual assault.

 

[admin]

Wonderful its the same crap i was taking about this stupid show Fifty Shades of Grey , its a show where women are manipulated and abused by a sex craved man. The book is poorly written and if women supports this film they are subjecting themselves and condoning this nonsense.

 

[MangaAddict]

I think we need to implement this....

Graphic...but gratifying!

[video]http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=571_1413656438[/video]

 

[Shadowhunter]

Wonderful its the same crap i was taking about this stupid show Fifty Shades of Grey , its a show where women are manipulated and abused by a sex craved man. The book is poorly written and if women supports this film they are subjecting themselves and condoning this nonsense.

THANK YOU! Do you know how many women are subjecting themselves to mistreatment by romanticizing this abuse? I don't see a problem in publicizing accurate, healthy information on sex but this is ridiculous. What makes it worse is the vast number of inexperienced people that actually think these behaviors are acceptable!!!

 

[Shadowhunter]

I think we need to implement this....

Graphic...but gratifying!

[video]http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=571_1413656438[/video]

I disagree Manga. I'm not even watching that TBH. Violence does not resolve acts of aggression IMO. This does not undo the actions they committed, erase the pain and humiliation they caused, educate society so misogynists understand why this is wrong, or encourage people to do something helpful about it.

 

[LadyDeath]

Rape In T&T..Parents really not growing up their children right yes ,!

A MAN charged with raping a 13-year-old girl five times was denied bail during his court appearance yesterday. In remanding Ricardo Stoute into custody, Deputy Chief Magistrate Mark Wellington told him that if granted bail there was the possibility more of the alleged offences may be committed. Stoute, 20, was charged by Constable Keisha Sealy that twice on February 6, at Kumar Village, Williamsville, he had sexual intercourse with a female who is 13.
Wellington also read three more charges of a similar nature, which were allegedly committed against the same victim between February 9 to 11 at La Romaine.
Stoute, of Williamsville, was not called upon to enter a plea to the indictable charges.
He was unrepresented as he stood before the San Fernando First Court.
Stoute will return before the Magistrates? Court on March 31.

 

[LadyDeath]

Another 13 year old girl yes. Wtf going on

Eastern Division police are currently investigating the circumstances surrounding the alleged rape of a 13-year-old girl.
According to police reports, on March 6, a 13-year-old pupil of the Manzanilla High School in company with her mother went to the Manzanilla Police Station and made a report.
The officers were told that on January 23, the teenager went to her friend’s home located at North Manzanilla Road, Manzanilla where a young man she knows took her into a room of the house, took off her clothes and allegedly had sexual intercourse with her.
The teenager was then taken to the Valencia Health Centre where she was medically examined and a medical report on her condition was obtained.
Following this a warrant has since been issued and police said an arrest was imminent.

 

[Shadowhunter]

I think children need to be educated on these matters. Hiding it because they're "too small to understand" will only make them easier prey for possible offenders. Also, many predators are repeat offenders as former victims either do not understand that something wrong and inappropriate has happened for them to seek help, some are conditioned to accept it as a normalcy or view it positively, some are too ashamed to come forward, some are blamed for the actions taking placed and punished, and in other cases, some victims are not believed. What happens? The offender goes on to their next victim with a clear name and good reputation so the next victim faces the same issues as well and so on and so forth. These attackers know damned well what they're doing. These children DO NOT. This formula is not working and should change IMO. Knowledge is power.

 

[nirtime]

I think children need to be educated on these matters. Hiding it because they're "too small to understand" will only make them easier prey for possible offenders. Also, many predators are repeat offenders as former victims either do not understand that something wrong and inappropriate has happened for them to seek help, some are conditioned to accept it as a normalcy or view it positively, some are too ashamed to come forward, some are blamed for the actions taking placed and punished, and in other cases, some victims are not believed. What happens? The offender goes on to their next victim with a clear name and good reputation so the next victim faces the same issues as well and so on and so forth. These attackers know damned well what they're doing. These children DO NOT. This formula is not working and should change IMO. Knowledge is power.

Some of these children already know about it before they should and sometimes you can't always believe the stories. As in the above story, how is it the dude so easily took off the girl's clothes? No details were given and that leaves me to wonder a lot about the situational factors. People need to be educated about it from young becaue they may as well be fall victim but lets not forget that education needs to contain elements in it to discourage those with tendencies to want things before their time and then they go "missing" and turn up safe and sound a week later.

 

[Shadowhunter]

Some of these children already know about it before they should and sometimes you can't always believe the stories. As in the above story, how is it the dude so easily took off the girl's clothes? No details were given and that leaves me to wonder a lot about the situational factors. People need to be educated about it from young because they may as well be fall victim but lets not forget that education needs to contain elements in it to discourage those with tendencies to want things before their time and then they go "missing" and turn up safe and sound a week later.

Children are not born knowing about and wanting sex. Puberty is considered a time when young adults experience a sexual awakening, for others it may happen much later. For sexual tendencies to develop before this or even if during those times unnatural, risky sexual behaviors take place, it is usually because it is taught. Some children unfortunately learn from their own experiences as they are prematurely exposed to the world of sex in a direct physical way, while others are influenced by interacting with or observing others.

With regards to that case, the victim is entitled to her privacy and should not be compelled to reveal the details of her trauma to others in an effort to make anyone believe her. All that matters is that she, a minor, was touched and interacted with in an inappropriate manner, against her will, by an adult that should have respected her instead of violating her. She came forward with her experience to seek justice and that is what she should receive. I'ts very easy for an adult to take a child's clothing off. He could have used manipulation, brainwashing, games, force, threats, disorienting substances, intimidation, etc the list goes on. I'll also note that children who appear to be abused or outcasted are often considered to be "easy prey" as the predator believes the child has no one to turn to for help and may often reiterate that to the child.

I've counseled children under the age of 18 that were prematurely exposed to sex. Some felt guilty and dirty about their experiences. Some tried to regain power of their violation by trying to claim the actions done to them and engaging in reckless behavior. Some were taught to believe that it was their fault and outcasted themselves and underwent drastic personality changes that negatively affected their mental health. Some were taught to believe that they were especially "chosen" and given early admittance to this special grown up experience and flaunted it. In all of these cases, these victims all needed help to move on from these experiences in healthy ways. These incidences are unnatural and even adults who are violated react in different ways until they receive efficient help.

 

[nirtime]

Thats what I'm saying, based on the way its written, it gives the illusion in some cases that it was too easy. In that way children need to be educated to recognize the signs and understand what is happening. They also need to be educated in what to do in such encounters as it is not always avoidable at first glance.

 

[Shadowhunter]

Thats what I'm saying, based on the way its written, it gives the illusion in some cases that it was too easy. In that way children need to be educated to recognize the signs and understand what is happening. They also need to be educated in what to do in such encounters as it is not always avoidable at first glance.

TBH man, I think it is too easy. I understand that a lot of adults think sex is too graphic and intimate a topic to discuss with children, but I think discussing boundaries and personal space can be done without going into graphic details about sex. Avoiding the discussion because it makes adults uncomfortable is in no one's best interest but the potential predator. Predators prey on and expect a lack of knowledge and understanding from children so keeping kids in the dark is actually helping the offenders. Actually, I'll extend that statement to adults too. A lot of adults don't realize they're being violated until they're in the middle of an unwanted situation because they don't have a good grasp of this stuff either.

For anyone interested, here is some great info on discussing these things, some of many great tips found online:

[video=youtube;7WJpdvlBMlE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7WJpdvlBMlE[/video]

 

[nirtime]

Very true. Nobody wants to take the time to do it properly so they rather not do it at all and in the end children suffer. A lot of adults actually condone "suggestive" behaviour until its taken too far. Then they regret every second of it. I've seen that happen a lot. I won't say they caused it because not everybody looks at finer details and understands what boundaries are set or when something is being taken too far.

The consensus is that there is a general lack of knowledge about these things in general but nothing is really done to help the situation.

 

[Shadowhunter]

Very true. I think it should be the norm for these things to be understood, and not to blame. So many times even the media twists things around, which we know is a great influential factor, and when figures in authority or "celebrities" spin things a certain way, I suppose people just absorb it and immediately copy the mindset.

 

[nirtime]

That's the problem, people follow what they see without consideration for their locale. While it is nice to want to be fashion or follow other's if someone likes the style, people must also consider their circumstances. We live in a country where it is very easy to become a target for crime and low key is the name of the game.

Honestly speaking children can be made aware of situations and signs of what's about to happen without necessarily having to get graphic. So that's one way of dealing with it.

 

[LadyDeath]

i think that children should be taught this at home at an early age. Good touch vs. Bad touch , protect their bodies, open up to them & tell them if anything bad happened. Communication is key.

For example when i was growing up my parents had the talk with me . Vaguely, however,with the love and understanding they showed me , i knew to talk to them about if things like that ever happened. Some parents are strict. Nothing is wrong with that, however, there is a boarder line between being strict and being closed off that your kids are afraid of you. In these times, we need to be open and create a strong relationship with your children. Things are only getting worst. They need to know that we trust them vice versa

 

[Shadowhunter]

I definitely agree. A lot of people feel squirmish about the idea of sex ed in schools, but honestly, I think it's a great idea. A lot of parents/guardians just don't know how to talk to their children and may not have another trusted adult to pass that responsibility on to when it comes to educating their kids on these matters. Even primary schools can start with the basic "good touch, bad touch" safety principles and identify authorities and trusted adults children can go to whether it's due to confusion or an actual emergency.