Indeed people can choose how they behave, but... "Show off" to whom? I can think of a hell of a lot of ways to "show off" before engaging in homosexual sex. And doesn't "show off" imply that you hope most others will be impressed? Most Trinis would not find homosexual behavior "impressive"...

Well, science does not know. All the research is conflicting and inconclusive. For example the more older brothers you have (not sisters eh) the more likely you are to be gay--but not if you are left-handed. (And the percentages are small too like 6 percent and below). However, gay men are...

"Gunshot inna head" is not a "preference" it is illegal. Straights do talk/sing about their preference all the time. Why almost every love song ever written... Jamaica does have a serious problem though. They are obsessed to an unhealthy degree. And do tell; if there are no gays in Jamaica...

The Bible clearly disapproves of homosexual sex, but it never says anything like that. If you want to talk theology, no sin is so great that there is no redemption for it, and even worse, very few of the people left out of heaven would have been active homosexuals; much, much, much more would...

Seriously what really happened, and where/what time of day are these things occurring? Maybe it was a misunderstanding? Maybe the guy was being friendly? I find it hard to believe it was a downright proposition in full public. And for the guy who was suited, I really want to know what time of...

You really have to get away from this "Long hair is gay!", "Tight pants are gay!" stuff if you're serious. None of that is in the dictionary, and there is no one style people with same-sex attractions follow. For the most part they dress just like you (which is all-how).

In Trinidad and Tobago? The vast majority of people with same-sex attractions in this country are not this brave. Your friend met the one, honestly. No gays have ever bothered me in life in this country. You all must be passing in some shady places at some late hours! Also some people here...

Now, people can choose how they wish to behave. There is simply no question about that. People who have same-sex attractions do not have to act on them--and a good many do not, especially in places like Trinidad where it can be dangerous or expose one to ridicule etc. Others do not for religious...

All you have to "do" to be homosexual is to have a sexual attraction to members of your own sex. You don't have to have sex with them, or put on lipstick, or call the "girlfriend" with a lisp; you just have to have a sexual physiological response to them (and not to women). (Check the dictionary).